>He's still lonely at 30+
Literally how? I think I hit 26 and then achieved zen-like peace with the fact I'll never be married or even have a partner. Not once have I desired human affection since that point. Like it's not even that it simply doesn't cross my mind, I can weigh it up and down in my head for hours and I always come to the conclusion I'd be less happy than I am now.
You will never stop having those moments when you briefly snap out of your delusion and realize that you are irreparably destroying the only chance you had before being lulled back to numbness by whatever gay Japanese nonsense you use to distract yourself from it.